Neither me nor you, they!

Today we are going to talk about expressing someone what you feel for them, I can understand that it’s hard sometimes to express, and it’s alright. Let’s get deeper into it and discuss in stages.

Trust, the hardest thing to do these days, I guess. You shouldn’t trust someone completely but that doesn’t mean not at all, only thing you need to trust completely is yourself. Some people will more like to listen about you from some other people maybe from any mutual one. It’s true that some people change with time, no one’s personality is constant, one can get better with time and another one be opposite of it.

Sometimes life gets disturbed because of someone and who is NEITHER ME NOR YOU, THEY! “The third person”, like- they said about you ‘xyz’. It’s not about anything related to your deeds with proof; we are talking about the misunderstanding, if you really did something wrong than it’s not a good thing but if you didn’t do but you suffer in some way than it’s also not a good thing.

Nothing is wrong yet, things get bad when the third person says something that’s not true and how you dealt that specific thing in your head, and you never know what they said and what you take it as.

Let’s discuss this thing with an example:- You had a fight with someone and you aren’t wrong in that situation, you both fight and clear things between each other and everything is sorted now, the third person enjoys and will tell someone that you both had a nice fight, will never tell who was wrong and thing got sorted back.

The image that created was not good, was not completely explained, after hearing this you’ll never trust that person about whom the third one said, not because they did something to you, it’s because the third one gave an negative over view about them.

Sometimes I really think about our life like everything is so important, the good part and the bad part too, but I’ve seen many of the times it’s because of the trust issues or negative thinking after someone said something to you. Yes it’s true that some people changes, no one’s personality is constant for a long time, one can get better with time and another one be opposite of it.

The thing is you should always mind your words and never take out moral of someone’s story, before completely going through it. You haven’t seen the whole thing, you weren’t there at that time, always remember, a scene can go from a whole different stage to another. Sorting things out isn’t that hard, it’s all about how you dealt that situation & everything can be perfectly done, if not rushed. Not everyone can think like you, no one can be you, proper mutual understanding and communication is the key.