Void Inside Our Heart

I heard someone saying they are not healed after their breakup phase. How much time passed? I asked with curiosity. I heard 7 months.

Lack of self-love causes difficulty in moving on from someone. They say they aren’t healed yet, it’s an excuse they make because they don’t love themselves enough that they are afraid that they are going to be loved again by someone or not. And if you say that you miss the way they used to love then why did it hurt you so much? They have accepted that the other person is the only person with whom they will be able to love and exchange their thoughts, no matter what they have done to you and your peace of mind. Only you are responsible for your situation, they have played their part and now it is your turn to make it happen. It’s your choice. The truth is they aren’t ready to forget them, somewhere they have a little hope that they shall come back but they won’t. One who’s gone never returns.

And if you hard believe that they will return, why did they leave you? Re-read it until it makes sense to you.

Now you’ll say, keeping hope is a good thing, bro, yeah sure it is but if you aim a rock at the ocean and hope to fill it with it. I won’t consider it as a smart move, aimless people do that. You can also hope that someone far better will love you like a poet loved the moon; a gardener loved that one rose that looks different.

Never degrade yourself for anyone, your love is rare, so don’t waste it.

Don’t kill love; kill the version of you that loved the wrong person.